[ilka]

блин....и это тоже не помогло(

копался копался и попробовал залезть в /usr/ports/multimedia/mplayer/work/MPlayer-1.0rc1/configure.log

а там все ошибки ссылаются на mplayer-conf--16883.o (эта часть лога для наглядности)
может ну хоть кто нибудь знает? )

/usr/local/include/atk-1.0 -I/usr/local/include/cairo -I/usr/local/include/pango-1.0 -I/usr/local/include -I/usr/local/
include/glib-2.0 -I/usr/local/lib/glib-2.0/include -I/usr/X11R6/include -I/usr/local/include/freetype2 -Wl,-z,noexecstack -L/usr/lo
cal/lib -L/usr/local/lib -o /usr/ports/multimedia/mplayer/work/MPlayer-1.0rc1/mplayer-conf--16883.o /usr/ports/multimedia/mplayer/work
/MPlayer-1.0rc1/mplayer-conf--16883.c -llircc
/usr/ports/multimedia/mplayer/work/MPlayer-1.0rc1/mplayer-conf--16883.c:1:24: lirc/lircc.h: No such file or directory

ldd /usr/ports/multimedia/mplayer/work/MPlayer-1.0rc1/mplayer-conf--16883.o
ldd: /usr/ports/multimedia/mplayer/work/MPlayer-1.0rc1/mplayer-conf--16883.o: No such file or directory